A wife is a blessing from God

He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord. The moment you stop acknowledging it, the favour ends. Many marriages and relationship are failing today because the men are now taking glory for what God is doing in their lives. God is a jealous God, he won't share his glory with any man, also pride brings a man down. If God blesses you because you have found a wife, but you leave the woman with hunger, tears, pain, to be with another woman outside, even without saying a praying you are bringing curse upon the blessing. God said because you did not give thanks for the blessing he gave to you, he will curse it. When a man don't acknowledge the blessing of God, that is curse number 1, if he maltreat his wife that is curse number 2 and so on. If God should bless a married man especially because of his wife, if he don't take care of her as he should or like himself, it will turn to a curse. That is why many men are striving today, they work hard and so well, but nothing to show for it. God is now blessing the women. For example in Lagos, Nigeria, women are driving the best cars, owning the best houses, richer than their husbands but the men are busy struggling and saying I am the man of the house. The moment you begin to say that statement you have lost your place. Men was created to feed and take care of his family needs not the other way round. If you don't want your blessing to turn to a curse, you still have enough time to make things right. It is a man to a woman that is what the New Testament says, not a man to women or a woman to men, there is always a punishment for a sin if you repent or not, what you are only saved from after repentance is death. Tread carefully obedience is better than sacrifice.